mysql problem in LAN

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root@debian:/home/light# nmap 10.0.2.15

Starting Nmap 6.00 ( 2 ) at 2013-12-24 23:23 CET
Nmap scan report for 10.0.2.15
Host is up (0.0000080s latency).
Not shown: 996 closed ports
PORT     STATE SERVICE
22/tcp   open  ssh
80/tcp   open  http
111/tcp  open  rpcbind
3306/tcp open  mysql

Nmap done: 1 IP address (1 host up) scanned in 0.30 seconds
root@debian:/home/light# nmap 192.168.56.101

Starting Nmap 6.00 ( 2 ) at 2013-12-24 23:25 CET
Nmap scan report for 192.168.56.101
Host is up (0.000021s latency).
Not shown: 995 closed ports
PORT     STATE SERVICE
22/tcp   open  ssh
80/tcp   open  http
111/tcp  open  rpcbind
3306/tcp open  mysql
4001/tcp open  newoak

Nmap done: 1 IP address (1 host up) scanned in 0.20 seconds
root@debian:/home/light# nmap 25.131.96.211

Starting Nmap 6.00 ( 2 ) at 2013-12-24 23:26 CET
Nmap scan report for 25.131.96.211
Host is up (0.000010s latency).
Not shown: 996 closed ports
PORT     STATE SERVICE
22/tcp   open  ssh
80/tcp   open  http
111/tcp  open  rpcbind
3306/tcp open  mysql

Nmap done: 1 IP address (1 host up) scanned in 0.20 seconds
 

PORT 4101 IS CLOSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HOWEVER I HAVE DISABLED FIREWALL
 
 
root@debian:/home/light# nmap sS 192.168.56.101 -p4101
Starting Nmap 6.00 ( 2 ) at 2013-12-24 23:49 CET
Failed to resolve given hostname/IP: sS.  Note that you cant use /mask AND 1-4,7,100- style IP ranges. If the machine only has an IPv6 address, add the Nmap -6 flag to scan that.
Nmap scan report for 192.168.56.101
Host is up (0.00014s latency).
PORT     STATE  SERVICE
4101/tcp closed brlp-0
 
NOW PORT OPEN!!!! BUT GAME NOT WORK (CONNECT)
NOTE: windows firewall is disabled